On June 21st, millions of people celebrated Father’s Day. Some fathers were honored at church, some fathers were celebrated at home, and many fathers enjoyed fishing, grilling, or quite possibly, doing nothing at all. And like any good Husband or Dad would, some fathers may have even found themselves completing “honey-do” lists or sitting on the floor playing with his children. But what makes a Dad truly special? It’s not his willingness to buy a bigger car or a nicer house, or even the way he prolifically mows the lawn or takes out the trash. It’s not even the way he shows his children how to build the tallest skyscraper out of building blocks. The thing that makes Dad truly great is the unconditional love that he has for his children.
Ever since I was a little girl, my Daddy has loved me unconditionally. No matter what I am doing, he is always my number one supporter. Whether I am teaching school, singing with the Florida Worship Choir and Orchestra, or writing a new song or blog, he always encourages me and prays for me. You see, it’s not about what I’m doing. It’s the fact that I am the one who is doing it. He loves me for who I am, not for what I do. Perhaps you have the same relationship with your father, so you know exactly what I am talking about. Dads love us even when we spit up on their new suit on the way to church as infants, spilled milk on their new house slippers as toddlers, or backed their car into the mailbox as teenagers. You may wonder why fathers love us so much, even when we make mistakes. Because from the moment we are born, our Dads become some of our biggest lifelong fans. We are priceless treasures in the eyes of our fathers.
In the same way, our Heavenly Father considers us a treasure. In Isaiah 43:4 (NIV), the Lord says, “you are precious and honored in my sight.” Even before you were born, God knew all about you, right down to the number of hairs on your head. Matthew 10:30-31 (NIV) says, “And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” You are valuable in God’s sight. Why? Because God loves you unconditionally; He cares about you so very much. I Peter 5:7 (NIV) says, “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”
Perhaps you feel alone and long for this kind of compassion. You may not have a loving relationship with your father here on this earth. You may have gone your separate ways as a teenager, chasing something you now regret. Or your father may be abusive, either physically or emotionally, causing you to distance yourself from him. I encourage you to pray that God will mend the broken bridge between you and your father. If your father has passed away, you are not alone. God loves you and He is with you always. He will comfort your heart, surrounding you with the peace that passes all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Whatever circumstance you find yourself in, rest assured that our Heavenly Father loves you so very much. No matter what you’ve done, or where you are, you will never be out of the reach of His unconditional love. Romans 8:38-39 says that nothing can ever separate us from the love of Jesus Christ. He will mend your broken heart, restore your joy, and reveal His purpose for your life. Put your trust in Jesus Christ today. He is a Father to the fatherless. Call on His name. Your life will be changed when you call upon our Heavenly Father.
In Christ’s Love,